by Elizabeth Grams
Photos: Courtesy of David and Sharon Sklorenko, Stu Ambrose, and Barb Stahl
Since 1980, David and Sharon Sklorenko have traveled hundreds of thousands of miles on the community’s behalf. Appleton, Cincinnati, Colorado Springs, Dominica, Grenada, Kingston, Memphis, Rockford, Yakima . . . the Sklorenkos have been to them all, visiting prayer groups and branches. (They’ve been to all 21 locations where the community currently has branches).
In June of 2016, after more than 35 years of travel and service, the Sklorenkos made their last official branch visit, to Buffalo. David formally retired from his role as Mission coordinator on July 1, a few months shy of his 80th birthday.
But before all of those trips, in the 1970s, the Sklorenkos were living in Hawaii, where David had founded or run a number of businesses involving road construction, landscaping, property development and warehousing. They had four children. They were founding members of a Catholic parish and were active in a charismatic prayer group. . . . They were an active couple.
Clem and Julie Walters recall meeting them in 1978, when members of the prayer group in Hawaii took them, unannounced, to the Sklorenkos’ home. “There were David and Sharon and all the children, from the oldest to the youngest, working on a very dirty project moving stones,” Clem said. “I thought to myself, that guy can really do something—he can organize kids!” Julie recalls how Sharon immediately dropped what she was doing to welcome her guests to an impromptu meal and visit in their home.
After the Sklorenkos attended the charismatic Kansas City conference in 1977, David felt a tug from the Lord to join covenant community on the mainland. The Sklorenko family moved from Hawaii to South Bend in 1979, leaving behind businesses, family members and friends, as well as the prayer group (which went on to became the Oahu branch of the People of Praise).
“It was a leap of faith,” says Sharon. “It seemed like a lot to leave everything, but the minute I got to South Bend it just seemed right. I never looked back.”
In South Bend, David’s business expertise was put to use for the community right away. He took on management of the LaSalle Building, managed the community’s bookstore and restaurant there, and worked in the conference office of Charismatic Renewal Services (CRS), which was administering national charismatic conferences hosting thousands of people. Sharon worked in the building, too, first helping out in the restaurant, then joining David in the conference office.
In 1980, they began visiting prayer groups and fledgling communities sprouting out of the charismatic renewal to train them in what the People of Praise had learned about community life. That work became part of the Christians in Mission program office after it was founded in 1981, and Overall Coordinator Paul DeCelles later appointed David to be a Mission coordinator. In the following years, the Sklorenkos helped several of those groups through the process of becoming branches of the People of Praise. Over time their work naturally shifted from relating to prayer groups to relating to branches. David became the coordinator responsible for the branches in Appleton, Grenada, Kingston, Rockford and Yakima.
Sharon took on a handmaid-like role, which Dawn Keaveny (Kingston) described: “She was always concerned about every woman in the branch, and on every visit inquired how each was doing. She loved our children and they loved her in return, earning her the title ‘Aunty Sharon.’ She shared practical advice about family, marriage, sisterhood and generally what it means to be a godly woman.”
They did all this while David served as a coordinator in the South Bend branch, and Sharon both served as a handmaid and worked at CRS assisting Vice-President Pat Rath. At the same time, they were raising their children and opening their home to household members, to David’s aunt and Sharon’s mother. David was also administering conferences across the US, and he was intimately involved in several key property deals: securing the community centers in Rockford and Appleton, buying the community’s first properties in Allendale, and overseeing construction at the LaSalle Company’s new warehouse and office.
The Sklorenkos were so often on the road that David eventually became a member of the American Airlines Two Million Miler program. They were known for their undaunted cheerfulness. Maureen McDonough (South Bend), whose friendship with Sharon goes back to the days they waitressed in the Lasalle Restaurant together, notes that she never heard Sharon complain. “She never loved to travel, but she was always ready to go in an instant when the Lord said ‘Go,’” Maureen said.
In September of 1988, Hurricane Gilbert swept through Jamaica, destroying buildings and cutting off supplies. After the storm, David and Sharon took the first flight they could get into the country to support the brothers and sisters in the recently established Kingston branch. In New York’s Kennedy Airport they discovered that the crates of canned goods they brought along wouldn’t be allowed on the plane, so they bought a bunch of duffle bags and hurriedly repacked the food in those.
“In the midst of our difficulties, God sent Dave and Sharon from South Bend to encourage us,” wrote Andre Johnstone in a 1989 Vine & Branches article. “They stayed with us for one week and experienced with us the difficulties of having no water, no electricity, no bread.”
“David and Sharon represented and exhibited the spirit and the lived experience of the covenant that we had committed to,” said Dominic Jeremiah, the head of the branch leaders’ team in Grenada. “When they visited, they would literally put down their bags from a long and exhausting flight and start assisting with laundry or folding clothes or choosing to go visit a brother or sister who needed to chat with them. David’s skillful diplomacy also opened many doors with leaders of the local church and established our community as a positive presence.”
Mike Madden (Appleton) points out that, despite the breadth of David and Sharon’s relationships, “You always feel like you are the only one in the room when they listen to you.”
Jennifer Ambrose (Rockford) says, “When Stu’s father died, they pitched in and helped empty and clean up the house. They’ve been to our kids’ baptisms; we’ve been to one another’s parents’ funerals. They’ve had our backs, administering a hug or a slap–whichever was necessary. And they know how to laugh.”
The Sklorenkos have passed the baton to others. Jim and Beth Bulger (Servant Branch) began relating to the branches in Kingston and Grenada in 2014, and John and Amy Zwerneman (South Bend) began relating to the Appleton and Rockford branches in July, 2016.
Kevin Ranaghan started working with the Sklorenkos in 1996 and has continued to do so ever since then in his capacity as the head of the community’s branch relations team. “The branch relations team and many of our branches will sorely miss David and Sharon,” he said. “They brought teaching, understanding of the wider community and real-life wisdom into each branch. In a genuinely heartfelt way, they have been friends to all, forging bonds of love and care that will outlast their many years of service.”
David and Sharon are celebrating their retirement in a way that should not be surprising: by packing their bags for a trip to Alaska.